When the Bill Comes Due
My thoughts on the response to the death of Charlie Kirk
The news of Charlie Kirk’s death has lit up my news feed, and reactions are all over the place. Some are celebrating, almost giddy with joy. Others are grieving, genuinely sad. Some are angry at the violence, or at the hypocrisy. And some are just afraid, wondering what this says about where we are as a country, and what might be coming next.
We need to be honest about what we’re seeing, and what we’re feeling. The reaction isn’t because of a difference in political opinion; if it were simply about ideas, we wouldn’t be witnessing this kind of response.
Charlie Kirk was someone who built his platform on mocking and belittling others, on “owning the libs,” on turning cruelty into a kind of performance. That has real consequences. Words like that shape lives. They strip away dignity, safety, and belonging. And the people who were targeted carry those wounds.
And here’s the deep, painful irony: he once said that gun deaths are just the price we pay for the Second Amendment, and that that price was worth it.
Think about that. He was willing to accept the death of strangers, of children, of neighbors… as collateral damage. But the Second Amendment doesn’t discriminate. When you say the price is worth it, you have to know the bill will eventually come due. We shouldn’t be surprised when it comes collecting its toll, even from him.
So when he is suddenly gone, some don’t see it as the loss of just one life. They feel the end of a voice that caused them harm. Their reactions may look harsh, but underneath is years of frustration, grief, anger and pain boiling over.
Of course celebrating death isn’t who we are called to be. I say that without hesitation.
Nothing can justify what happened yesterday.
But we can also tell the truth: when someone spends years denying humanity to others, it’s not shocking that people struggle to extend humanity back.
As people of faith, our task is not to cheer, but to lament. To lament the harm done, the lives shaped by his words, the lives lost to the violence he excused, and even the tragic irony of his own end. We can condemn violence while still understanding the anger and the hurt behind people’s reactions.
And then we can remind ourselves of who we are. Charlie Kirk once said that compassion was weakness. But we know better.
We are the ones called to hold onto compassion without looking away from truth, and to keep choosing love, not because it’s easy, but because it’s the only way the cycle of harm is ever broken.


I've been struggling with how to frame my grief about this event, while having little compassion for Kirk himself. Thank you so much for your words.
Timely and appropriate. You turn a great phrase.